Inside Out: A Trimester Guide for You and Baby

From hiccups to heartburn, backaches to belly flutters, every trimester brings a fresh flurry of firsts.

By Vanessa Pappas

 

Good things come in threes. Genies grant three wishes. Third time’s a charm. Even three cushions on a sofa just work. There’s balance in threes - and when it comes to pregnancy, the rule of three holds strong.

Pregnancy is divided into three trimesters, each about three months long, and each bringing its own milestones for you and your baby. Here’s what to expect, stage by stage.

 

First Trimester Guide (Weeks 1 to 12)

Your period’s late, and you’re standing in the bathroom with a pregnancy test from Dis-Chem, squinting at the lines. Faint? Bold? Is that even a line? You hold it up to the light, reread the instructions … and then it hits you: it’s positive. Whether you’re thrilled, shocked, or somewhere in between, your body has already begun the process of growing a baby, even if you still look and feel the same as you did yesterday.

 

What Happens During The 1st Trimester?

From the moment sperm meets egg, your body starts making changes to support your pregnancy and your baby’s development. Hormones like hCG, progesterone, and oestrogen rise quickly, causing the classic (and often not so nice) first-trimester symptoms. You might feel tired, nauseous, emotional, or bloated. Sore breasts, frequent trips to the loo, constipation and mood swings are also common. Internally, your heart rate increases, your blood volume expands, and your immune system shifts to protect the pregnancy.

What Baby Is Up To During The 1st Trimester?

In just 12 weeks, your baby goes from a bundle of cells to a tiny human.

 

  • By week 4, their major organs are starting to form.At week 5, their heart begins to beat.
  • By week 7, their limb buds appear, and the internal organs begin to develop.
  • At week 8, their facial features such as ears and a small nose begin to form.
  • By the end of the first trimester, your baby has fingers, toes, and a four-chambered heart. Not bad for someone smaller than a raspberry.

Second Trimester Guide (Weeks 13 to 27)

The second trimester is often referred to as the “honeymoon phase” of pregnancy. For many, the nausea fades and energy returns. You might feel more like yourself again, just with a growing belly and maybe the odd unsolicited belly rub from a stranger.

 

What Happens During The 2nd Trimester?

Your uterus expands, and you may start to “show.” You might feel sharp twinges low in your belly, known as round ligament pain, as everything stretches to make room. As digestion slows down, bloating or constipation can occur. Heartburn might also join in, thanks to relaxed digestive muscles. Your breasts continue growing and might leak a little colostrum (baby’s first milk). Skin changes are also common. Some moms-to-be develop melasma (dark patches on the face) or a dark line down the belly, called the linea nigra. If you’re feeling warmer than usual, it’s because your blood volume is increasing to support the baby.

 

One of the most exciting parts of this trimester is feeling your baby move. This usually starts around 18 to 20 weeks, first as gentle flutters or little pops, then gradually turning into more noticeable kicks and wriggles. Regular check-ups continue through this stage, and around 20 weeks, you’ll likely undergo a mid-pregnancy scan to assess how everything is developing.

What Baby Is Up To During 2nd Trimester?

Your baby is getting stronger and more developed by the week:

 

  • By week 16, they’re practising facial expressions.
  • By week 17, bones are forming, and joints are more flexible.
  • By week 18, they can hear your voice and respond to loud noises.
  • Week 19 is all about sensory development (smell, touch, sight, hearing and taste).
  • By week 20, your small sweet potato has fingerprints and hair and is starting to establish sleep-wake cycles. They’re also swallowing amniotic fluid, urinating, and maybe even sucking their thumb.

Guide Third Trimester (Weeks 28 to 40)

By this point, your baby bump is unmistakable, and your body feels like it’s running out of room. Sleep can become more difficult, with heartburn, leg cramps and frequent bathroom trips keeping you up at night.

 

What Happens During The 3rd Trimester?

All that extra weight can leave you with swollen feet, an aching back, shortness of breath, and increased pelvic pressure. You might also experience Braxton Hicks contractions (tightenings that come and go but aren’t real labour contractions). Some women notice increased discharge or even lose their mucus plug, a jelly-like bit that’s been sealing the cervix. A “bloody show” (a streak of blood-tinged mucus) can also signal that labour is near.

What Baby Is Up To During 3rd Trimester?

Your baby is gaining weight fast, adding fat to regulate body temperature after birth.

 

  • By weeks 28–30, they’re blinking, grasping, hiccupping, and turning their head toward light. Their lungs are maturing, and they’re practising breathing (although they’re still surrounded by fluid.
  • By weeks 31–32, their brain is developing rapidly, forming more complex neural connections. Many babies tend to turn into a head-down position around this time. You might feel more pressure in your pelvis as they drop lower, but breathing may feel a little easier.
  • By weeks 33–34, their bones are hardening (except for the skull, which stays soft for delivery), and they’re continuing to gain weight.
  • By weeks 35–36, their lungs are nearly ready and producing surfactant, a substance that helps them breathe after birth.
  • By weeks 37–40, they’re considered full term. Their immune system is absorbing antibodies from you to help protect against infections. 

Labour (Around Weeks 38 to 42)

You’ve waddled, packed your hospital bag three times, and counted down the days - now the big moment is here. Labour usually begins sometime between weeks 38 and 42, but like everything in pregnancy, the timing can be unpredictable. Some babies show up early, others take their sweet time, and a few need a polite eviction notice to get moving.

What You Might Notice

Here are a few telltale signs that labour is coming:

 

  • Regular contractions that get longer, stronger, and closer together
  • A dull backache or period-like cramps
  • Your waters breaking (either a gush or a slow trickle)
  • Increased pelvic pressure or the urge to poo (yes, really)

 

Good to know: Braxton Hicks may have kept you guessing before, but true labour contractions don’t ease with rest or hydration. They stick around and build in intensity.

 

What Baby Is Up To

By the time you're ready to push, your baby is lined up and doing their part to make their entrance into the world. Sure, it feels like you’re doing all the work (and fair enough), but labour really is a team effort. You push, and your baby twists, tucks, and shimmers their way out.

 

Stage 1: Early and Active Labour (Cervix dilates from 0 to 10 cm)

 

  • As your contractions begin, your baby gets into position. Their head presses down on the cervix, helping it thin out (efface) and open up (dilate).
  • If they’re head-down, they’ll start to tuck their chin to fit more snugly through the birth canal.
  • With every contraction, they gently shift and rotate, responding to the pressure and your movements.
  • They may be quiet and conserving energy, but they’re actively helping your body prepare for what’s next.

 

Stage 2: Pushing and Birth

 

  • Your baby begins to descend further into the pelvis.
  • They rotate again, this time to align their head and shoulders with the birth canal.
  • Their skull bones, still soft and flexible, gently mould to fit through the tight space.
  • As you push, they work with your contractions, inching closer to their debut.
  • This stage ends with that unforgettable moment: your baby’s first breath and first cry.

 

Stage 3: Delivering the Placenta

 

  • While you deliver the placenta, your baby is low-key panicking about the sudden drop in room service and letting out that glorious first cry.
  • They take their first real breaths and begin using their lungs for oxygen.
  • Their skin may still carry traces of vernix (that waxy coating), and their body is working to regulate temperature.
  • Their circulatory system switches over from relying on the placenta to working on its own.
  • They’re also beginning to bond (locking eyes, recognising your voice, and adjusting to light, sound and touch).

Packing For The Journey

Back to top